Notion of the day

In continuation to Female Behaviour – 5

I was thinking

The reverse equation also has to be true, isn’t it..? i.e.

Won’t he be looking for a protective embrace from her..? 

May be, it is rarely disclosed by his masculine ego.

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One thought on “Notion of the day

  1. anonymous

    July 18, 2016 at 9:10am

    Usually not many men experience tender emotions but like women men also like pampering for some time . Not all the time

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        Akhila

        July 18, 2016 at 3:13pm

        there is a kid in every person..kids need to be pampered all the time..

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        • pins & ashes

          July 18, 2016 at 3:21pm

          I think even the kids in every person will say, give us our space! (my view totally, I’m a very space conscious person that way.. )

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            Akhila

            July 18, 2016 at 3:24pm

            i meant small kids, not big kids like you.. lol

          • pins & ashes

            July 18, 2016 at 3:26pm

            LOL! even them ya, go doing chubby cheeks with them, they’ll push you way! (point taken!) LOL

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            Akhila

            July 18, 2016 at 3:28pm

            ha ha.. let me try with a few…will be back if Im alive after that.

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      Akhila

      July 18, 2016 at 3:08pm

      not all the time.. yes i was looking for this comment to understand the difference in emotions..

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  2. Nisthur Anadi

    July 18, 2016 at 9:24am

    I got the essence of relationship, within the boundaries of the home , he enter into the realm of queen. Where in she rules and like a king of the kingdom . She insure the proper arrangement for life to survive for people who lives with her in her home.

    She makes sure to nurture the family with food , love and care.

    Love is the strong and powerful emotion , where in you feel the extension of your existence beyond your body and mind.

    You nurture your family like your own body and soul. You understand their emotional and physical requirement like your own requirement. We don’t make any effort to do so, but it’s happening since inception of human race. That’s how life has been programed by almighty , once your basic survival met . You start sharing , what you have with your closed ones, family , society, country and entire planet .

    It’s your capacity to share what you have with humanity. Here we should remember one thing . What we have , it’s given to us to share. The more you share more virtue will be given to You.

    Sorry I took the issue to the extreme, but that is how things are interlinked.

    For wise men entire creation is his family , simultaneously he enjoy the experience of entire resources available on this planet.

    He is uncrowned king and lives in eternal bliss.

    So again coming to the point, women has to share her virtues with his men to make him complete and should feel his men part of this own existence.

    Once you realized he is me. That love will flow from every pore of cell.

    Then there is no give and take. One hand never thank other for working together.

    Feel the Union with your men beyond time and space you will in ever ecstatic.

    Thanks Akhila for tolerating me..

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      Akhila

      July 18, 2016 at 3:18pm

      you shared a great point, the realization of love in all..thank you so much for you thoughtful words.

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  3. theonlysup

    July 18, 2016 at 9:43am

    Yes we all need the embrace.. May be some share it with their partner may be some don’t ..

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      Akhila

      July 18, 2016 at 3:07pm

      yeah.. this post is meant to all those who don’t share or understand the needs

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  4. shilpamohan5

    July 18, 2016 at 10:15am

    It is all about feelings and emotions. We all are human beings irrespective of gender..both men and women need embrace frm their partner

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      Akhila

      July 18, 2016 at 3:06pm

      yes shilpa.. at times ego makes us to be in a a different world and misunderstand the needs.. so this post is to all those…

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  5. pins & ashes

    July 18, 2016 at 12:05pm

    men with their women are very free.. they too love hugs and kisses! of course, so very very true give it to them 😀

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      Akhila

      July 18, 2016 at 2:38pm

      ha ha.. hugs and kisses, of-course yes.. but there is big difference in giving a protective embrace

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  6. myheartbeats4ublog

    July 18, 2016 at 12:08pm

    so true akhila..an embrace this side also would make an ocean of difference in every relationship. Don’t think the ego factor steps in to refuse! the ego may, at best, try and mask the embrace within a sheath of ‘love’ instead of the ‘protective’ one!

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  7. Shalini Sharrma

    July 18, 2016 at 4:54pm

    Hmm.. a good question. Like these days we believe men also cry, it’s okay and they look cute when they do on their lover’s/ friend’s lap. We clearly need more examples to let them and their toughness be converted to an open one. Isn’t it ?

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      Akhila

      July 18, 2016 at 10:51pm

      Yes..their toughness needs to be converted…there are a few like that.. But not all.. Something prevents them from being doing so

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  8. fairykumar

    July 22, 2016 at 3:40pm

    Yes, that’s true! Behind every successful man, there is a strong woman!

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