Society presumptions

She 1: I would like to do that

She 2: Oh such a silly thing….

She 3: Leave it yaar…this is not how it has to be.

She 1: Should I leave it..?

She 4: You should not leave it, only because of these words. It could be silly or not, thoughtful or not, but it’s your own interest. It should not be altered merely on hearing some negative words. Yes, you can think more on those negative vibes, but finally you must have an unbiased mind. You must have that willpower to decide your path against the so called society presumptions.

She 5: So never pay attention to “This is how it has to be” messages. And never be bothered on hearing words like “don’t talk such silly rubbish stuffs”. You only have the right to decide what all rubbishes to be played upon and no one else.

She 1: Thanks dears, I understand

Silly or not, thoughtful or not, never leave one’s interest merely on consuming some demotivating vibes from the environs. Just go with one’s own unbiased confident mind.”

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The author is a Quality Assurance professional by experience. Part Quantitative data analyst, part consultant for quality and information security practices, part software tester, she is a writer by passion and blogs at http://wordsandnotion.com and http://qualitynotion.com/.

One thought on “Society presumptions

  1. Josh

    December 27, 2016 at 9:30am

    Dont Give a “F” about what world says, if you are convinced go, rock on! Enik ishttayi, othiri 🙂

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      Akhila

      December 27, 2016 at 10:12am

      morning Jo. .. and go on if and only if you are convinced..

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  2. thewritewomanblog

    December 27, 2016 at 9:32am

    Good morning, Akhi!
    Such powerful words to start your morning with. Absolutely agree. Never let the negative vibes pull you or your thoughts or interests down.
    Have an upbeat and interesting day!

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      Akhila

      December 27, 2016 at 10:07am

      thank you so much dear Nitha…often we hear these words of negative vibes, in the form of prejudice ..isnt it.. we need to break the barriers of such presumptions

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      • thewritewomanblog

        December 27, 2016 at 10:10am

        Been there and know it best. These are words that will keep us motivated and going through a particularly rough day or even a normal ‘down’ day. Keep them coming, Akhi!

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  3. misstalkaholic

    December 27, 2016 at 10:47am

    We get mature with time only.. there’s a time we all get dependent on someone, and then there is this time when we start taking decisions ourself.

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      Akhila

      December 27, 2016 at 10:54am

      true…there is a time we realize our power.. till then we live in a biased way

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      Akhila

      December 27, 2016 at 11:02am

      I am not able to click upon ‘post comments’ in your blog..can you try the same with opera..

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      • misstalkaholic

        December 27, 2016 at 11:07am

        Oh, I don’t know why it’s happening so.. gotta fixed so many things even now.. thanks for letting me know. I have become a developer now from a blogger.. lol

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          Akhila

          December 27, 2016 at 11:13am

          ha ha.. we have to be a developer cum manager cum blogger cum everythin…

          Actually where are you from Falak..?

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          • misstalkaholic

            December 27, 2016 at 11:18am

            Delhi, of course.. That’s why I keep sharing posts on delhi right now. ☺

  4. mataindah

    December 27, 2016 at 11:09am

    A single negative comments among folks will stop majority of us to even think unique..Isn’t it so?

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      Akhila

      December 27, 2016 at 12:00pm

      yes..and we need to overcome that prejudice mindset

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      • mataindah

        December 27, 2016 at 12:30pm

        personally i hardly have that mindset..Hope someday i will mould myself to be such a human with specific viewpoint

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  5. Shaggy

    December 27, 2016 at 11:13am

    Exactly!!!
    When society asks you to go sober
    Shout back at them….
    TURN DOWN FOR WHAT!!! ITS NEW YEAR…… YAY!!!

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  6. chape

    December 27, 2016 at 12:09pm

    Great advice, Akhila. This is the right mindset to start the new year 😀
    Hugs!!

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      Akhila

      December 27, 2016 at 3:51pm

      thanks a lot David…so everything set for the New Year..;)

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  7. boundlessblessingsblog

    December 27, 2016 at 12:12pm

    Very inspiring Akhila, a word of encouragement goes a long way, why must we bother also about negative people and ruin our lives. Great post.

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      Akhila

      December 27, 2016 at 3:49pm

      true…. but many a times we fail to read our own conscious mind and just go with these kind presumptions

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  8. Joker Shayar

    December 27, 2016 at 12:51pm

    inspiring for sure !

    but what if there are only 3 “She” ‘s :p

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  9. theonlysup

    December 28, 2016 at 8:20am

    Great.. I have always been doing whats right and what interests me and not the one society tells.. And I have been doing good so far. So irrespective of gender u should chose path where ur passion drives u

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  12. novelistbaba

    December 30, 2016 at 7:58pm

    exactly………you do anything for yourself…..so why should someone else’s opinion affect your decision….. 🙂 🙂

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  13. sachin

    December 31, 2016 at 8:45am

    Showing the courage to free ourself from the mould of society is the best thing we can do against a society which ask you to follow it blindly.
    ‘Great work, loved it ✌✌

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      Akhila

      December 31, 2016 at 3:58pm

      Thanks sachin.. you summarized my post very neatly..

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  14. cp_chithra_cp

    January 1, 2017 at 8:20pm

    It might be hard to move against and unleash from the chains of society presumptions..but we are living our lives..so we should decide and go on with what we like and love..

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      Akhila

      January 1, 2017 at 8:44pm

      True…we need to decide our path and it should not be a biased decision

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  15. Girlintheblackrobe

    February 18, 2017 at 12:01am

    I’m so glad I read this post. It’s sad that in today’s world, people have started living to please and live upto the standards and norms set by society, regardless of whether their true happiness lies in them. This fear of society is killing the youth. We need more voices like you. Very inspiring.

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