He loves me, he loves me not  – The thrill of uncertainties

By | January 5, 2017

Certain or uncertain..?

Uncertainties are always accompanied with so many ups and downs.  And no one will love to have a life full of uncertainties.

But if everything are certain, what thrill can appear in life? If life is going on just as expected, won’t it be too boring?

So there is something stimulating us in those uncertainties, like “He loves me, he loves me not” scenario. The thrill of anticipation drives us even if the end results are not much appreciable.

Appreciate uncertainty as it comes up with opportunities and makes life thrilling

87 thoughts on “He loves me, he loves me not  – The thrill of uncertainties

  1. A Walk into the Woods

    Its the unknown that has always attracted man to carve his own destiny. If all were known, man would become too complacent even to move a finger. Curiosity, uncertainty and the whys of the world aid in evolution. Did i take it to another tangent? 😛

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    1. Akhila Post author

      You are absolutely right…nothing wrong in your dimensions.. it’s the unpredictable nature of the universe which makes us continue our explorations and create wonders in the world

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    1. Akhila Post author

      yes Bikram… infact it is really tough when things not clear in front of you.. but as you said, there is something spicy and beautiful inspiring us..

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  2. Akhila Post author

    ya..i know, you are in such a thrill now, isnt it.. waiting for results..

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  3. Masoom Jethwa

    Apt and beautiful web for those stuck in between committed and complicated status ! I do this uncertainty with my life !

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  4. Vinayak Gupta

    Its like when its good its wonderful, when its bad its experience 🙂

    Uncertainty is must in ones life, it actually make our life thrilling and by this we get to know our capability to deal with it…

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    1. Akhila Post author

      i agree with you vinyak.. still can we always cope up with those bad uncertainties..

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  5. thewritewomanblog

    Good morning, Akhi!
    Absolutely! The thrill of uncertainty is very exciting. How boring life would be if everything was clear and certain.
    Have a super exciting day, Akhi!

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    1. Akhila Post author

      Thanks my nitha….so let us create uncertainties and make the life more exciting

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  6. Deepika Kumaaraguru

    A very true message you have given here, Akhila. Life’s beauty is the fact that it is unpredictable and it is waking up in the morning with no idea of what is going to happen that makes it a glorious adventure 😀

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    1. Akhila Post author

      You are absolutely right deepika…and it’s a beautiful fact i realized in this new year…

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  7. doodlessworld

    Like always, i keep waiting for your posts.
    and love them as soon as i read the tittle 😉
    you always surprise me with your thoughts 🙂

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    1. Akhila Post author

      Thank you so much…i liked what you said, that to value the certainties, we must know what’s uncertainty

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      1. boundlessblessingsblog

        Yes dear in this world of duality we have to weigh our pros and cons and then will we know where to go, we all have to go thru this roller coaster. Akhila give your feedback and let me know if you liked the poem i wrote on That is Living.

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  8. kingsleydgenius

    According to inserberg uncertainties principles… No two act can be understand sumitaneously for that’s what makes life not to be boring . Cause trying to understand it make life move on

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    1. Akhila Post author

      Heisenberg’s principle is much appreciated…and i loved that you linked it to the post..

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  9. Akhila Post author

    He he…Heisenberg’s principle….
    Uncertainties are the doorways to opportunities…

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  10. Mr.Lonely

    In my personal opinion..
    Love is nothing but a feeling of self confidence and confort between individuals☺

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  11. 2ndhalfolife

    The question has been put: would you want to know just when you were going to die? Would you live life more fully? Or is it best to have it unknown? It could be scary to know….

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    1. Akhila Post author

      Yes..it is best if unknown..but another question haunts me..if we have to die, why we take birth

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      1. 2ndhalfolife

        Maybe the two are parts of the same organism really and you just can’t have one without the other. Like light and dark; it’s the parts of a thing that make it whole?

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    2. cote8050

      I agree, it would be scary and I know i would totally focus on the when and wonder about the how and not enjoy what time I have left. For me, ignorance is bliss in this situation…

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  12. cote8050

    the unknown does hold some excitement and attraction but when it comes to does he love me or not, I would like to know for sure… 🙂 nice writing and thanks for giving us something to think about. Michelle

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  13. Polly White

    Our situation can lead to uncertainty. However, our faith can make us certain. My new adult novel warns of gangs and their negative influence on students. ‘What If I Go?’ is out 31st January and empowers women. Check out the realistic story. Download soon via publisher, Solstice in US. http://solsticepublishing.com/
    Thanks!

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  14. Hemangini

    I am in an uncertain phase of my life right now, confusion is at its highest and I am happy… I can’t believe it you know? hehe this is a wonderful post. 😀 Thanks…

    Have a wonderful night Akhila. Sleep tight.

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    1. Akhila Post author

      Thanks Chitra…you said it…can you enjoy that positivity of uncertainties?

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  15. shifafawaz

    Akhila! You always write about something I ponder about! Just few days back I was discussing with a friend about how life would be if we know our future already and concluded that it would be boring and it is this uncertainty of life that makes it interesting and what motivates us in life!
    Great post ♥

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  16. shifafawaz

    Hahaha..!! =D Yes..telepathy 😉
    True…common things that we tend to ignore and not think about…

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  17. Beparvah !!

    In this journey I understood that love is not uncertain of you don’t have any pre conditions.. whether she loves me or not doesn’t stop me from loving her.. because it’s a divine feeling… 🙂

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      1. Beparvah !!

        Thank you so very much.. I think it’s because of the love that I understood and carried for her.. Her name will always be in my heart.. and soul.. she gave me this mindset after severing all connections for me.. I hope she is fine wherever she is.. my constant prayers for her helps me to survive all this pain.. !! May be someday god will listen and she will realise this someday and may come back.. 🙂

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          1. Beparvah !!

            Thank you.. I believe prayers will help.. 🙂 I felt her strength while surviving in the dense forest still in Manipur..

  18. Beparvah !!

    That drill was memorable as it became quite scary when we suddenly saw those Naga rebels with best of their weapons… we were standstill for more than 15mins… so that we can escape their notice..

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  19. Meenakshi Sethi

    Agree on that…uncetainties gives a good exercise to heart and other senses as they bring excitement and free our life from being stagnant and boring.

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  20. galeweithers

    I so agree with this post and believe that it’s getting through to the end without dying which can motivate us as well – see what I mean here: https://goo.gl/K6IYSv – but in the meantime, thanks for your great words!

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