Men and Women

By | March 1, 2017

Men marry women with the hope they will never change. Women marry men with the hope they will change. Invariably they are both disappointed. ― Albert Einstein

Hmm.. Was this statement made by Einstein…from physics to psychology? well, I am not quite sure.

Anyway you have something to say on this quote, no ; )

47 thoughts on “Men and Women

  1. Beparvah !!

    These differences and fights actually complete their relationship…love overpowers these differences I presume… and this quote is too good because it is very true…. even I have read it somewhere… Einstein’s work on psychology is very well known !!

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      1. Beparvah !!

        I have to check it … but I have heard about this aspect of him… in fact even read somewhere some articles describing about this angle of this genius !!

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          1. Beparvah !!

            Even Chomsky has been carrying a lot of vibrant aspects … they have actually invested something to themselves… and we all are getting benefited from their investments

  2. mobilefriendly2017

    Very much interesting post ! Uniqueness of this post give me a idea for my upcoming post ! Thanks for sharing this & keep sharing such interesting post !

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  3. novelistbaba

    i guess, if it’s written on the internet so it must be true………….as for the proof…….i would have to step into disappointment myself, wait a few year i will get back to you…… 🙂 🙂

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    1. Akhila Post author

      Ha ha.. so get back once you get into that..between how long it should take approximately

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  4. Prajakta

    I am not sure if he was experienced enough to make this quote! History doesn’t look too kindly on his personal life.

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  5. Nadine

    Sadly this is true in many cases. Only a fool marries thinking they can change someone that’s why couples should really get to know each other before marriage

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    1. Akhila Post author

      Thanks for your views.. but even there are couples who live happily, they came to know each other only after marriage or engagement

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  6. sudershana

    Haha, expecting to change it means keeping a condition to spend the rest of life. It must be a choice not a contract, isn’t it?

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    1. Akhila Post author

      Why do we wanna change others.. why can’t we accept them as they are.. when we try to attach them with ourselves what’s the benefit if some of their parts are lost..

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      1. mathias sager

        Yeah, good question and I agree with your wish / openness for diversity. However, it may have to do with fear from what is different. If we are confronted with difference and don’t want to change ourselves, we may feel rejected and consequently insecure and threatened. That’s why people prefer others to be self-confirming. That’s one view, but there may be many other reasons too, depending on situations:-) All the best!

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        1. Akhila Post author

          It’s like we are only responsible for our changes, no one else have the right to change us for their comfort

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          1. mathias sager

            Absolutely!!! Requires strength though to not adapt to others’ wishes when seeking their friendship for example. Maybe that’s a good definition of real friends: they take us as we are:-) Cheers!

          2. Akhila Post author

            True, if we need to think twice before telling something to our friends, how can they be our true friends…

  7. Akhila Post author

    Life is beautiful.isnt it.. how can we be disappointed…as you said, maybe due to too much of expectations

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  8. thewritewomanblog

    Really, Einstein said that? Not all the theorems and equations of physics can describe the complexities of married life!
    What say, Akhi?

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