I don’t mind helping you in the best way I can, but I am reluctant to ask for your help though I know that there are people who even like it. (Without having any Secret agenda behind the helping hands )
Have you tried to figure out the reasons behind this reluctance..? Or are you of the other type, ‘no worries to be helped’?
How to ask for what you need is an art. Being in a people driven world, we can’t live in isolation. So earlier the better if one can learn that art. We need to know the reason behind this reluctance, and then only one can decide whether to overcome it or not
So what do you think? Is it due to a thought arising from any of these attitudes?
- No favour please
- It’s obligatory
- Can’t be burden for you
- I am perfectionist, don’t like the way you do
- Afraid of the judgemental reaction from others
- Worried upon exposing my inability
- My ego
- Afraid of being confused further after the help
- Fear of being rejected