Who will talk first?

His one word reply was good enough to elevate her into the epitome of imaginations. She didn’t ask anything further as the answer was least satisfactory or a perfect lie for her.

He waited for her to ask further. Since she didn’t, he skipped and left.

She thought why he was lying.

He thought why she couldn’t ask further.

The ego is so powerful to ruin your relationships.  Keep an eye out for that missing heart to heart conversation.

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The author is a Quality Assurance professional by experience. Part Quantitative data analyst, part consultant for quality and information security practices, part software tester, she is a writer by passion and blogs at http://wordsandnotion.com and http://qualitynotion.com/.

One thought on “Who will talk first?

  1. boundlessblessingsblog

    May 17, 2017 at 10:04am

    Absolutely true and egos are like that they can ruin relationships in a second. So always be aware of your egos. Nice post Akhila.

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  2. Mann

    May 17, 2017 at 10:07am

    Conversation I the key…provided a healthy one!!!

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  3. Sanskriti Sharma

    May 17, 2017 at 11:21am

    Ego: a vital weapon to secure a lonely domain!
    Very well written, Akhila.
    How r you, by the way?

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      Akhila

      May 17, 2017 at 4:11pm

      Hey..sanskriti …seems it has been a long since we talked…I am all good..how are you doing…

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  4. bisimodupe1975

    May 17, 2017 at 5:06pm

    Good advice Akhila. Our ego if not checked in a conflict messes up our good relationship.

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      Akhila

      May 18, 2017 at 10:20am

      You are right bisim. Very often we miss many great moments when the ego comes into play

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      Akhila

      May 18, 2017 at 10:25am

      Yeah.. but many a times we lose the control to think logically, to opt the better choice

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  5. Feelings and Freedom

    May 17, 2017 at 7:59pm

    Ego can certainly destroy a relationship in a wink. In a true relationship, there shouldn’t be a room for ego!

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  6. Infinite Living

    May 17, 2017 at 9:49pm

    This is very true …some conversations are like …either meant to be or not meant to be.

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  7. Infinite Living

    May 19, 2017 at 1:30am

    It was my thought on missing out on some heart to heart conversations …they either happen or don’t …either meant to be, or not meant to be …your post is a good reminder to be more mindful of the possibility.
    Sorry if I still don’t make sense 🙂 …just the state of my mind I guess …

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      Akhila

      May 19, 2017 at 12:27pm

      Now it makes complete sense dear..my miss that I couldn’t capture at the first go…

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  8. thewritewomanblog

    May 21, 2017 at 2:09pm

    Ego, the shining weapon of destruction that threatens to break that delicate bridge of a relationship.

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      Akhila

      May 22, 2017 at 10:01am

      Nitha..an after thought , any idea coming from this for our FB?

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