Ready for an argument?

Do argue if you are confident on returns, otherwise quietly quit and act on your own.

In our daily life, we all undergo different kinds of argument with our co-workers, family members, friends etc.

An argument could be constructive or destructive. Constructive is pretty clear, i.e. if we want to make something clarified we will argue and come up with outputs.

Destructive arguments happen more frequently or rather naturally. Somehow, we will be tempted to do it, forgetting about surroundings, outcomes etc. There is no value which we gain out of such argument, rather than simply losing our energy and finally ending up with some sort of negative vibrations around us.

If those assignments are of planned stuffs, normally we will have some expected results- may be positive or negative. For unplanned arguments, initially we won’t be realizing that we are falling in to it. But definitely after a moment, we will realize that our voice is increasing or temper is getting lost. And at the very next moment, just analyse the direction of argument. If you are sure of returns, continue the argument. Otherwise just pause, think and quit [ and yes go with your rights]

About

The author is a Quality Analyst by experience. Part Quantitative data analyst, part consultant for quality and information security practices, part software tester, she is a writer by passion and blogs at https://wordsandnotion.com and https://qualitynotion.com/.

One thought on “Ready for an argument?

  1. Di

    February 21, 2014 at 7:16am

    There can never be a magic pill for this. Arguments are just another means for communication. You cannot always have a constructive argument; there are times when built up emotions and frustrations needs to be let loose; care however should be taken to leave it at that. it is when we carry the baggage of these arguments around that its affects a lot of things we do. … easier said than done:)

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          • Sakthi

            April 2, 2016 at 4:13pm

            being a experienced woman, you should know how to handle it 🙂 but you say its tough!

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            Akhila

            April 2, 2016 at 4:23pm

            oh.. If I get a chance, may be I will have to. But any way not at all in my dreams..

          • Sakthi

            April 2, 2016 at 4:27pm

            Hopefully i wish you get a chance and you succeed in it!

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            Akhila

            April 2, 2016 at 4:28pm

            wonderful blessing .. thank you..

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  2. boundlessblessingsblog

    August 12, 2017 at 9:41am

    Completely understand and agree totally with your words Akhila why argue when nothing is happening and no one is wanting to keep quiet just move away and so many times these arguments lead to animosity and relationships breaking up

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    • tashas-tales

      August 12, 2017 at 4:04pm

      Totally with you! If I can avoid unnecessary confrontation, then I will!

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