Fear and love

It’s always said that opportunities are lost when fear overrules your beliefs. And lost opportunities can never be retrieved. The saying inspires you to master your emotions like fear and accept the world of challenges. And obviously it’s in your own hands; your own mind to be adapted to rule the fear.

But what if fear overrules the love?  When there is a factor of fear in a relationship, can it meet the purpose? It’s difficult to overcome this fear factor in love. Mastering of the same is not always in one’s own hands.

Love is lost when fear overrules the love. It’s scary for the people who struggle with that fear. Never give that space for any fear factor in your relationship. After all do you really want to give a panic attack to the people whom you really value in your life?

Often men and women fall into this fear driven story line. Give comfort to open up without giving back any fear of flying off the handle or overreacting if he or she presents the uncensored version in front of you. And just know how important you are to them.

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One thought on “Fear and love

  1. Feelings and Freedom

    November 21, 2017 at 10:48am

    Hmm…excellent thought Akhila. Can’t say about fear in love but yes fear makes you lose opportunities. Thanks for the reminder !

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  2. kishanlakhotia

    November 21, 2017 at 12:25pm

    Fear can rule love when the lover has attachment to it’s love as he will always be worried about loosing the love. A lover who enjoys the love without any precondition never entertain the fear of loosing of the love. These are my views, other’s have right to different views.

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      Akhila

      November 21, 2017 at 2:26pm

      And it need not be the fear of losing the love always…lack of comfort could be a factor for fear, overreactions by the other could be a source of fear…

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  3. boundlessblessingsblog

    November 21, 2017 at 2:38pm

    True and excellent words so well written, Akhila. Never give your power to anyone so that you live your whole life in fear. Love is so different and beautiful than fear. Beautiful words.

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  4. kalyansparks

    November 21, 2017 at 2:56pm

    This is more scary than we think..Fear is like a lion,if we don’t control it it eats us,but also we should give respect to fear in relationships,that fear losing loved ones helps to take decisions correctly

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  5. thewritewomanblog

    November 21, 2017 at 7:35pm

    Fear is a threat to love. Fear and love are like water and oil that simply cannot mix. Wise words, Akhi.

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  6. mihrank

    November 22, 2017 at 2:56am

    this is so correct, true definition and words!!

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