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I Had a Crush – The 17 Kinks

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I donno why comment box in a self hosted blog post [Jetpack enabled] disappears from the mobile devices [phones, tablets or ipads].

Though comment box  is not shown up in mobile wordpress app for self hosted blogs, it appears in desktop page.

Its really frustrating when you are unable to leave a feedback after reading a post of your choice.

A few solutions which I have seen are

  • Go to the direct web blog URL as in wordsandnotion
  • Tap on the Gravatar icon which will take you to the reader view of whole blog posts and there tap on the required one to comment
  • Tap on the post link if it appears along with your notifications

While I tried to contact Jetpack team, they told like ‘this commenting feature is yet not fully implemented.’

And interestingly one more thing they informed me. That is if you follow more than 1K or 2K blogs, self hosted blogs wont appear in your reader even if you follow them.

So only option is to subscribe on self hosted blog like wordsandnotion [ not the regular wordpress follow]. Then you will get email notifications on post updates. [E-mail notifications wont be getting for wordpress followers from self hosted blogs, you will get emails only if you subscribe]

If this specific post comes to the notice of Jetpack team or wordpress team, I wish some workarounds to happen at the earliest from their side

Also if you already know any solutions for these issues please let me know… [ so if you are on mobile devices and if you dont see comment box along with this post in your wordpress app, please tap on my gravatar icon or go directly to wordsandnotion to leave your comments]

Certain bonds are unaffected if never met or contacted for long.

And still then you are free to knock at their door all of a sudden on a day.

Such friendships are really precious where in you can be with them forgetting your whole ego.

No worries of being discovered as you are exposed to them fully.

No qualms of any greedy eyes as you live in their heart only.

Fasting! …If you are a health conscious person, I am quite sure that most of you would be already practicing the same on a periodic basis. Couple of days back I had an interaction with a naturopathist. He reminded me on the importance of fasting as a healing strategy.

Don’t give up your ‘five meals a day’ all of a sudden in the name of fasting even if you are a healthy person. It might collapse you being exhausted.  First of all give up your intermittent food and limit to “three meals a day”. Then face the challenge slowly, giving up one meal a day, then two and so on. And replace the missed meals place with fruits in your tummy. Once your body is tuned to sustain without food, have a water fasting day [have water alone] or fruit fasting day [have fruits alone].

Now what about regularizing this? Fast on a periodic basis, weekly, biweekly or monthly depending on your physical conditions.

And obviously if you are fasting regularly, your body is tuned for that and hence you can take fasting without much preparation.

After fasting don’t intake heavy food immediately. Again tune your tummy slowly, initially with some juice, rice soup or so and so. After a few hours you will be ready to have your usual meals.

I used to fast in the night once in a week for many years (can’t be strictly called as fasting, as I take some light food). And I used to get hungry then. But this time when I had taken the whole day fasting after proper preparatory steps, I didn’t feel to be hungry. Obviously I was tired by next day morning; still it was soothing experience and a proper rest time for my tummy.

Raise the curtain of your life and always be present on the stage facing the claps and stones.

 

Nowadays we spent enormous money in interior home designing forgetting about space constraints inside rooms. Usually we design our home as per our wish and money, ignoring an important aspect ‘whether the home really needs us’.

If the home is fully crowded with all sort of furniture, machines etc., what is our need there..?

home 1

Just ask a few questions yourself.

  • Can you touch the walls and feel its murmurs? If the wall is fully packed with cupboards, photo frames, etc. definitely you can’t even see the wall.
  • Do you have a place to sit on the floor with your kids and family? Or is it fully furnished..?
  • Can you stand and watch out through your balcony or is it covered..?

If all the answers are “no , easy to conclude that your home doesn’t look for you. If a few aspects are taken care during interior designing, we can make our home lively and beautiful.

  • First and the most important thing is to have maximum ventilation.
  • Then fill furniture which are essential only, leaving enough empty areas.
  • Ensure to have enough storage places to account the smallest thing so that things won’t be spread here and there.

We can design our home in any way, but it is important to ensure that the heart of home is not broken with our designs

She asked me “What do you like about being a woman?”

Hmm.. Nice Question

Indeed, not hearing it for the first time, but thinking deeply on the same for the first time.

So let me widen the thought..

What do you like about being a woman?

Or

What do you like about being a man?

“What do you want to be, a doctor, engineer or a teacher like me? “

Mahitha answered “I want to be happy”

This is short dialogue from the malayalam movie “Vismayam”

To be happy” – That’s what we all want from the bottom of our heart. But is that really appreciated or taken care while ensuring to outdo always?

I am happy to be called as a busybee and yes, I am. But thinking aloud “Is that what I really wanted?”

Maybe Yes.

But won’t I miss the fun of idle moments..? So recently I started to feed this into my brain,

“Do everything that makes you happy as long as it’s not a severe damage for some other.

And have time “to do nothing” and enjoy the fun of idleness.”

If there is preset fate for me, why should I live? I wanna create my destiny as I am not accepting any fates

I am not fooled by my expertise.

But I want to play by my own effort.

Then why do you wanna help me hurting my ego?