Does money matter..?

In my childhood, money was never in my priority list..may be the moral stories made me an angel then..;)

(now, not at all an angel ..)

Even when I started to earn, I didn’t bother much about the financial side of life. (may be, still there is some angelic effects 😉 ..)

But I emphasis the value of being financially independent especially women. (I am stressing on women as they might have a tendency to depend upon their spouse or father)

Don’t bother whether it is used or not. It gives a self stand whatever happens in life.

No matter, with whom we get married or wherever we go in life, we have to be financially independent. It increases one’s self morale. We will never have to feel helplessness in life.

In this era, majority of the guys prefer to have an employed wife as she could be a good financial back up for the family. And the perceptions vary based on culture, societies etc. Some think women need to work while others expect them to be good house wives.

I believe what is most important is what each woman think of herself. And I wish her to have that thinking ability and become financially independent.

Nothing is impossible.

mind block

There is a block in the mind which makes us less adventurous. When we overcome this mind block, impossibility becomes possibility.

When a kid starts to explore something new, just be with him/her and support instead  of preventing him/her from doing the same. Majority of the parents, being concerned on the safety of their kid, starts telling like ‘don’t do that, you can’t do that, it’s dangerous etc’.

And when they grow up, these thoughts are rooted in their mind and they starts thinking about the impossibilities. They start thinking whether they can do it or not.  In fact when they were a kid, never they might have thought about any impossibility. Everything was under their arms or big mind.

Being elder, where did this self-confidence get buried?

Yes, our mind is something which is getting tuned to the circumstances.

It gets tuned to whatever we hear in the childhood.

It gets tuned to whatever we see in the childhood.

And the mind block starts to develop within us unknowingly. We could never realize it. We are tuned. We simply believe that ‘it’ can not be done by me.

Tell your mind

“you are awesome; you can create wonders in the world; you can rule the impossibilities”