There is no question if said “make decisions without emotions involved”. But can that really happen? Can a decision be taken using the brain alone?

Always a choice is finalized with an emotion even while being driven by logic, sometimes more reactive and some other times less reactive.  These responses are actually the subconscious choices.  So what’s actually wrong in obeying the subconscious mind as long as the choices are not purely driven by poor emotional conclusions alone?

Of course mistakes can happen with emotionally biased quick judgments. And hence if there is no immediate danger, don’t let your emotional brain to overrule the logical brain.

Similarly a pure logical decision can mislead us in a direction opposite to our self-interests. So why not keep a little bit of emotions [ but not any quick judgments] even while being driven by rational thoughts?

Recently I read a story of a revolutionist [or I am not sure if it was a film] who wore white dresses only always. When she was about to die, she asked for a green jacket. People thought she has become crazy due to illness and ignored her wish. She died without fulfilling her wish.

She sacrificed her entire life for the wellbeing of the society and finally died as a crazy woman just because of her desire for a green jacket while being on the deathbed.

Why was she forced to suppress her entire emotions while being alive?

Why couldn’t she express her felt emotions?

Was it a part of the so called “disciplined life”?

Obviously “a green jacket” was not at all big thing.. still it was banned in her life for some reasons.

May be a conflict was happening inside her mind between felt and expressed emotions.

Finally she could express a little bit of it only when she was becoming unconscious, nearing death.

And then why did people misunderstand her when she expressed a bit of it during her final moments?

 

It was a clean murder. Still no one was much concerned. No one even said a word about her. Normally when someone is no more, people start pitying them, say good words about them. But nothing like that happened in her case now. She was my ever best friend. So it is indeed an irreparable loss for me.

But what can I do?

In this world it’s me only who can’t ever forget her. Two waterfalls have already begun from my watery eyes. I feel so lonely without her. She could only make me complete. Without her I am just a piece of lifeless flesh and bones.

Oh! God, I need her back at any cost.

Now I pity myself for killing her over the intuition of my logical brain. At that time there had a fight between my logical brain and emotional mind. And finally the logical brain won ever the poor emotional mind.

Yes, I am the murderer of my own emotional mind. I killed her and buried her deep inside my heart.

“Please come back my friend, and let me be with you”

 

She lives every moment in his breath, cuddled by his love

She is all alone if detached from the warmth of his arms

Never had she thought to win over her emotions for him as

Liberty from his armor of love could outbreak her too badly

But on a day she wore a dispassionate mask so deliberately

That her heart was reflecting the evidence of her adaptability

Still once in a while she loses her grasp over her mind

And her soul whispers “I am not ignoring you, never can I.

But the more I am unseen by you, the more I get used to that”

It’s just a play of a burning heart in the hunt for a balance.

Why should women be the broker of emotions always? Let the role be reversed. She doesn’t want anything more. Let her come out from the shells of prejudices. She is strong enough to tell a man “don’t do love me”

via I’m not a Broker of Emotions

Emotional detachment.. Can it free you or paralyse you further?

It’s always said that opportunities are lost when fear overrules your beliefs. And lost opportunities can never be retrieved. The saying inspires you to master your emotions like fear and accept the world of challenges. And obviously it’s in your own hands; your own mind to be adapted to rule the fear.

But what if fear overrules the love?  When there is a factor of fear in a relationship, can it meet the purpose? It’s difficult to overcome this fear factor in love. Mastering of the same is not always in one’s own hands.

Love is lost when fear overrules the love. It’s scary for the people who struggle with that fear. Never give that space for any fear factor in your relationship. After all do you really want to give a panic attack to the people whom you really value in your life?

Often men and women fall into this fear driven story line. Give comfort to open up without giving back any fear of flying off the handle or overreacting if he or she presents the uncensored version in front of you. And just know how important you are to them.

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It was devastating, the entire city got crushed. People were buried alive. The three kids were screaming in the rescue center, missing their parents……..

Yes, it was very pathetic, But I didn’t cry.

Later, she was managing the entire show as her parents were killed in that attack. She took care of her sisters, fed them, slept with them.

And this time, my tears were almost on their verge of escaping..

I don’t want to control my tears, let it flow down. It was not the tears of pain, but something else, someother sort of emotions…what’s that called..?

Making love increases emotional initimacy, he says.

A heart to heart increases emotional intimacy, she says.

Frantic buzzing echoing in ears

Tempting to ignore the rhythm of routine

Waves of worries dancing around

Drawing to fall in the pool of uncertainties

The stubborn heart trying hard

To stop the nerves from breaking n bleeding

Lips weaving a forged smile

To bring her back from the emotional edges.