Nowadays we spent enormous money in interior home designing forgetting about space constraints inside rooms. Usually we design our home as per our wish and money, ignoring an important aspect ‘whether the home really needs us’.

If the home is fully crowded with all sort of furniture, machines etc., what is our need there..?

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Just ask a few questions yourself.

  • Can you touch the walls and feel its murmurs? If the wall is fully packed with cupboards, photo frames, etc. definitely you can’t even see the wall.
  • Do you have a place to sit on the floor with your kids and family? Or is it fully furnished..?
  • Can you stand and watch out through your balcony or is it covered..?

If all the answers are “no , easy to conclude that your home doesn’t look for you. If a few aspects are taken care during interior designing, we can make our home lively and beautiful.

  • First and the most important thing is to have maximum ventilation.
  • Then fill furniture which are essential only, leaving enough empty areas.
  • Ensure to have enough storage places to account the smallest thing so that things won’t be spread here and there.

We can design our home in any way, but it is important to ensure that the heart of home is not broken with our designs

Whimsical waves humming for you

Welcoming you all to my new home

Tweaks and polishes are going on though,

I am thrilled to be dancing with words

While making these stairs to your souls

Hello!!!! I’m back! I know I’ve been silent here for a week. Now I am so thrilled to greet you all in my self-hosted blog. All of my followers from wordpress community are transferred to this new blog.

Why don’t you have a look around my new home? If you face any abnormalities, please let me know.

Join me on this new journey, rooted in your own love.

Are you a soft mom/dad..?


Are you soft son/daughter..?

Nowadays we often hear words like ‘ I didn’t have time’ or ‘I was running short of time’ or ‘sorry, I am a bit delayed’

Well, time management is not my todays’ concern.

But we are often forced to compromise certain things in life due to ‘this lack of time issue’. And the most easily compromised is ‘child-parent relationship’ in today’s stressed life.

Every parent can recall a time when their frustration level went through the roof, and their emotional reactions to their children were not adequate to the situation.

Parents won’t understand that their timelessness is changing their routine life or raising their temper even for small small things in the family. And kids are often their victims because they are the naughty boxes.

Kids are supposed to be naughty, that’s their birth right. So yelling may stop them for a moment from their naughtiness. But they too have an emotional heart and it needs to be realized how badly the little heart is affected..!!

The situation is under control how quickly the parent presses the pause button. There are two things to be taken care after pressing the button

  • Limit the impulsive outbursts as far as possible
  • Take a genuine effort to restore the condition after an outburst.

After all, every parent wants their kids to be grown up as emotionally healthy persons.

And the situation is just reversed when the kids are grownups and by that time the parents would have become grandparents…now it’s the kids turn to show their timelessness and rudeness upon their parents.. And the cycle just repeats.. Even if people have time, sometimes they just pretend to be busy to give a five minutes call to his/her mom/dad.. They just pretend to be unaware of the emotions of their “home-alone parents”

So where is the exit..?

Ask oneself

Are you a soft mom/dad..? or Are you soft son/daughter..?

There are 6 homes in a compound.. Definitely, not the congested ones as in todays residential villas.  It may take around 1 to 2 kids’ minutes (they won’t walk, no.. they can only run ) to reach the other end if a kid starts from one end of the compound. And many such compounds before you reach a main junction. None of those compounds are segregated by todays kind of stone walls, instead there had some natural walls decorated with hibiscus, henna and all. (It was our hiding place while playing hide and seek….shhhhh. ) And a route in between.  And we had a pond also there in our compound. There was a field on the other side of the pond. We go there after school hours, do fishing and do all kinds of naughtiness with mud and water….

The houses are still there, the pond is still there, the remains of the field is still there, but definitely not that 8 year old girl..

Time passes, we also have to move with that. Or else we should have to travel in the speed of light to put a pause for time..

 After a long gap, I am taking part in a Quote challenge

Thank you perfectblemish13 for this nomination.

The rules:
• 3 Days challenge with quotes on each day
• 3 Nominees each day, not repetitive.

My nominees:



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Here comes my today’s quote. And let me link it with one of my older posts..

Does your home Need you?