She told me : “Past is past, you can’t do anything to revert it back. Nothing can be done now on what had happened. There is no point in thinking on the same. So just forget it.”

True that nothing can be done on the incident in past.  But something more to be done now for the future. I don’t understand how could she so easily say me to forget it. If I forget it and forgive them, the past will happen again and again with someone else too..

So no need to forget it as such if it has affected you. It’s not like blood for blood, but it’s for justice and fairness at least in future.

So my dear friends, if you know the procedures for filing a case in consumer court, kindly let me know especially if you have any hands on experience.

Some memories are hidden in past knowingly. It need not be a memory inhibition (inhibiting or not remembering irrelevant information), as the thoughts were relevant to you in the past. Still your conscious mind forced you to forget some past moments. And even your subconscious mind was tuned to believe that ‘If it’s not for me, let it go and if it’s for me it will come to me, till then I don’t have to think about that’

And then on a day, there happens some triggers poking them.

Still you are confused, whether it’s real or not. No, it’s not a dream, it happens in present-day only. They are the lively clues.

Maybe it’s the reason for something new. Can go with that and accept the risk while regaining repressed memories?

Or maybe it’s the liberation of not only conscious self, but the sub conscious self also. 😉


This is not a perfect translation of ആകാശഗംഗ.. still some part of that..

Start living your life in the present. Forget the regrets about the past and anxieties about the future. Simply enjoy what’s happening now.time

These statements are something which we often hear.But my question is

“Does ‘present’ exist really?”

Say, you are reading this now.. In fact you are not.. Since light rays take a finite time to bounce from the letters to your eye. Since the difference is infinitesimally small, one cannot recognize it.  So when you read a word, you are reading it as it looked sometime in the past. Or each letter you read is in the past.

So how a present moment can be there..?

Or is it based on the perception..?

Somewhere I read like the “shortest time a human can perceive is nearly 0.1 second of visual experience”.

So can the 0.1 second time-frame define the present?

I was having this past, present, future confusion since my childhood. While I am thinking, it’s just NOW. But oh, no. after a moment it has become past. ..What’s all this.. Makes me utterly confused.


I donno. Am I overthinking?

Or is it like “Present is boundary between past and future with no real existence of it’s own”

I think I need to investigate more on time, more on Einstein’s relativity of space and time.