Affirmative or constructive comments stimulate us a lot. It’s an art to speak in that way. Even in this wordpress world, we always feel better to read comment which has got something to tell us positively. It could be even a critic one, but makes us to wear a thinking hat after reading it.
I don’t mind whatever you tell me as I have a got a filer to my senses and a powerful blessing of short term memory with respect to the bad. 😉 (Of curse, it doesn’t mean that I am trouble-free.)
But I have seen some offensive comments, going on here and there, especially with people who may not have such a “filter”.
Why do we want to hurt someone’s ego with an offensive comment..?
So just a thought:
Why can’t we make them smile with our comment..?
Why can’t we make them feel better with our approach..?
Please don’t hesitate to offend me now, if you feel in the other way. 😉
People may tell like, “I don’t mind whatever you think about me. I will say whatever I think”. Even then, my question is, “Do your inner self agree to your offensive nature? Can you still continue without least botheration of your words..?”