She was in damn need of help when she came to me. Obviously, I supported her. It was not at all a big deal for me. But she was a bit reluctant to make me do the same thing for her continuously, for a few days. May be due to her concern for me.. I supported her for a few days and then she tried for some other arrangements. I tried to convince her that it was not at all botheration for me. But she didn’t..
But her arrangements didn’t work properly. So she again came to me and the story continued. Infact it was a soothing moment for me..
Sometimes we are doubtful whether “it will be problematic for the helper”. Yes, it could be due to the care and concern. And at the same time it might be due to the reluctance to take that freedom from us.
Normally we seek help only from those people with whom we are free. It’s really a pleasant feeling when someone finds us supportive and approachable.
So why not make a soothing presence, add a deeper connection and become more approachable?
So the happy me, smiling… 🙂