Do you love me out of true love or out of responsibility?
A question with every lovers..
But I will say, “You won’t get an immediate answer. Waite and see”
What do you say and which one do you prefer – the morally aided love or unconditional love?
Both are dangerous, both are not. If you ask me I’ll prefer an amalgamation of the two…proportion is in own hands…
Ha ha.. I like that amalgamation..
a smiley
When you love unconditionally, responsibility comes along with it naturally, but if loves comes with the responsibility of giving love because of certain conditions then it won’t flourish.
That’s it.. I agree with you fully.. Responsibility comes in natually in true love.. It’s actually embedded..no need to even think about it..
Beautifully said…. I have asked myself this in my relationship, and i always pray that love prevails. thank you for sharing. Please check out my blog. I would love your feedback!v
Thanks a lot for your feedback.. Yes, true love always prevails.. I too believe in ‘love out of love’
True indeed!!!!!
one should be responsible in/with love and treat it like one would if cultivating a plant. it must be cared for. if left alone, it will wither and die.
Thanks a lot for your words. I respect your views even though my mind can’t agree to that..
It’s OK to disagree. If we all thought alike…how boring life would be.
Thanks a lot for understanding. You are right, if everyone thinks alike, the would would have been less challenging
Very well said.
Sent me in deep thoughts. Thanks:)
Thanks.. But do you mind letting us know what do you think on this…
Hmm.. Good to know this..responsibilities are always based on some moral codes. Isnt it… So do you think that you love your kids or loved ones because you have to do that, it’s your duty or responsibility …
No No I don’t love someone because I have to do that. I love them that’s why I do that for them. I think they are two different things
Both are conditions now ….
How a blindman loves his partner?
Love all with your heart not mind.
So what’s that definition of unconditional love..
No definition. If anyone try to define, it will conditional..lol
Love =Love♥♥
Don’t ask definition of love..jagratee
Ha ha…okay agreed…
A mixture of both. ☺
Hehe.. Better version…
प्यार किया है तो निभाना है
निभाना है तो हर जिम्मेदारी उठाना है लेकिन वो भी प्यार से औपचारिकता या दबाव से नहीं।सम्मान आधारशिला है।
If duty is cominng out of love, yes it’s agreeable..but not viceversa..
When we love someone responsblities are being fulfiled automatically
Yess.. It will happen naturally.. But you can’t sustain in a long term relationship purely out of responsibility alone ..that’s what i feel
They are in combo.And one thing more conditions and responsblities are different.Why guys are raising the matter of unconditional love.
Ha. I liked your motive behind the last question
Wonderful creation yet again..love it is
Lol.. You have become predictable now, atleast for me
with love comes responsibilities.. so you cannot deny both . you love and hence you are morally socially emotionally financially responsible for each other’s life dream desires etc..
Hmm.. The practical approach, i should say.. But my mind wont agree to that fully
thats my experience 🙂
☺ i respect that and obviously people need to have difference in opinions..otherwise we may all look alike…it will be so boring, no
ofcourse .. my perspective are many a times different than yours .. nothing wrong.. thats how we grow.. by respecting the differences isnt it 🙂 thanks akhila . keep writing such thought provoking post
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It’s like the phrase, “Caught between the devil and the deep blue sea.” Not in the sense that they are dangerous, but it’s a really tough choice. Love is so confusing at times that it’s hard to actually answer such a thought provoking question. Like every human is unique, so is their concept about love. Nobody is ever satisfied with any answer about love.
Of the answer is “out of responsibility,” then the retuen question would be “am I a burden?” And if the answer is “true love,” the counter question would be “really?”
The best answer would be to say, “Look into my eyes and find the answer by yourself, my answer is beyond words!”
Very beautiful. I love everyone unconditionally. Unconditional love is the only way to end all the hate and anger that’s in our world today.
That’s so nice of you to love everyone unconditionally…
It’s in my nature. I like that about myself.
But i expected the peanuts and cashew nuts
Thanks andy. I agree with you. I too dont want to be loved out of responsibility…
Actually I am confused !
Still have no answer but now I will start finding the answer
Oh.. So think and let us know
Lack of experience I would like to say I don’t know but if we think about parent or siblings then it shows their unconditional love so I can say yes I would like to prefer unconditional !
That’s a nice answer.. And i wish you to have more personal experiences asap..
Unconditional always
Say, there shouldn’t be any conditions like he or she should love me only..in this way..?
Oh.. Anyway i should think that, no.. So will see next time again
Very deep thought indeed. Everyone wants unconditional love but I think sometimes people settle for far less because of the illusion of true, unconditional love.
Thanks shweta..many a times people are forced to compromise…the sad reality
Both have their own charm. Wouldn’t we want to be loved unconditionally by someone and because we are related to our parents and siblings?
Ahaaa….my kind of question first time on your board haha..lol!
To be very honest where there is a true love there comes a responsibilty and yes true love is unconditional but when it comes your way you enjoys the responsibilities attached to it too.
Love varies from people to people.. it’s okay when responsibilities are attached to that, or rather responsibility comes in naturally.. But i don’t think the vice versa would be true..
You might be right as i haven’t came across to the responsibilities yet so morever my opinion is based on observations only.
A very thoughtful post.
We always want the unconditional love but then not all of us get such pure love.
Hmm.. That’s sad that all of us are not blessed like that..
Thanks priya. So where did you reach now…
Agree with you priya.. Once we realize it’s love, everything happens automatically
To love or not to love that is the question!
Love can only come be true. The responsibility will come because of that true love. Hope I am clear.
Meena
Thanks meena.. As you said responsibilities or whatever may join love gradually on a long run.. But it will happen automatically..isnt it
Yes.
Responsibilities don’t even feel like burden in unconditional love since that love has no conditions, it is free and selfless. For me only unconditional love is love all other is just business!
Yes..i know your answer meenakshi.. And i have no doubt upon that unconditional
True Love or Responsible Love, that’s a very interesting question.
I feel Love grows and matures as time passes by, the give and take, the understanding for each other, the concern for one another, so on and so forth that you can say is true Love which is also responsible.
Conditions are Unconditional when it comes to Love.
Good One,
Regards,
Shiva
Thanks shiva sir.. I agree with you on the growing love.. Yes it grows and matures. Nothing can beat true love..It’s always unconditional
Akhila I was just thinking about your post only.
Is there anything called as Responsible Love, I think it shall not be. It is more of a duty bound but not Love at all. I hope you understand.
Duty bound love is there..it’s happening all around.. Maybe you know it better than me..as you said, it cannot be called as love, that i agree
That’s it!
Akhila you’re a perfect mental gym
So far so good.. Shhhh
Hehehehe
Lol quiet a imaginative mind you have.. Btw where did your mind wander to after “there”
true love brings the responsibility i think…
but every responsibility doesn’t bring love with it …
Bhai pyar ka puchnama bhool gaya ?? Just kidding .. Yes I’ll reply to this soon in more detail Sumit
Ha ha.. Yes..
You read me very well sumit..
I have a friend who came to the UAE on a job, her neighbor’s son (who was already in the UAE) was given the ‘responsibility’ to take care of her until she settled down. This responsibility turned into love and now he and she are ‘responsible’ for one another as they are very much man and wife and very much in love too. 😉
Ha ha nice counter story…so far so good, alle
Love unconditionally. Let that be a motto.
Yesss…thanks jeni
I’m trying too…You’re welcome akhila.