Do you love me out of true love or out of responsibility?

By | February 22, 2017
83 Comments

Do you love me out of true love or out of responsibility?

A question with every lovers..

But I will say, “You won’t get an immediate answer. Waite and see”

What do you say and which one do you prefer – the morally aided love or unconditional love?

83 thoughts on “Do you love me out of true love or out of responsibility?”

  1. Sangbad

    Both are dangerous, both are not. If you ask me I’ll prefer an amalgamation of the two…proportion is in own hands…

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  2. mylittlepursuitsofhappyness

    When you love unconditionally, responsibility comes along with it naturally, but if loves comes with the responsibility of giving love because of certain conditions then it won’t flourish.

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    1. Akhila Post author

      That’s it.. I agree with you fully.. Responsibility comes in natually in true love.. It’s actually embedded..no need to even think about it..

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  3. Pinkspen

    Beautifully said…. I have asked myself this in my relationship, and i always pray that love prevails. thank you for sharing. Please check out my blog. I would love your feedback!v

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    1. Akhila Post author

      Thanks a lot for your feedback.. Yes, true love always prevails.. I too believe in ‘love out of love’

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  4. buddy71

    one should be responsible in/with love and treat it like one would if cultivating a plant. it must be cared for. if left alone, it will wither and die.

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    1. Akhila Post author

      Thanks a lot for your words. I respect your views even though my mind can’t agree to that..

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        1. Akhila Post author

          Thanks a lot for understanding. You are right, if everyone thinks alike, the would would have been less challenging

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  6. Akhila Post author

    Hmm.. Good to know this..responsibilities are always based on some moral codes. Isnt it… So do you think that you love your kids or loved ones because you have to do that, it’s your duty or responsibility …

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  9. foreverjunoon

    प्यार किया है तो निभाना है
    निभाना है तो हर जिम्मेदारी उठाना है लेकिन वो भी प्यार से औपचारिकता या दबाव से नहीं।सम्मान आधारशिला है।

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        1. Akhila Post author

          Yess.. It will happen naturally.. But you can’t sustain in a long term relationship purely out of responsibility alone ..that’s what i feel

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          1. foreverjunoon

            They are in combo.And one thing more conditions and responsblities are different.Why guys are raising the matter of unconditional love.

  12. theonlysup

    with love comes responsibilities.. so you cannot deny both . you love and hence you are morally socially emotionally financially responsible for each other’s life dream desires etc..

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    1. Akhila Post author

      Hmm.. The practical approach, i should say.. But my mind wont agree to that fully

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        1. Akhila Post author

          ☺ i respect that and obviously people need to have difference in opinions..otherwise we may all look alike…it will be so boring, no

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          1. theonlysup

            ofcourse .. my perspective are many a times different than yours .. nothing wrong.. thats how we grow.. by respecting the differences isnt it 🙂 thanks akhila . keep writing such thought provoking post

  13. Jothish Joseph

    It’s like the phrase, “Caught between the devil and the deep blue sea.” Not in the sense that they are dangerous, but it’s a really tough choice. Love is so confusing at times that it’s hard to actually answer such a thought provoking question. Like every human is unique, so is their concept about love. Nobody is ever satisfied with any answer about love.
    Of the answer is “out of responsibility,” then the retuen question would be “am I a burden?” And if the answer is “true love,” the counter question would be “really?”
    The best answer would be to say, “Look into my eyes and find the answer by yourself, my answer is beyond words!”

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  14. kawsreflections

    Very beautiful. I love everyone unconditionally. Unconditional love is the only way to end all the hate and anger that’s in our world today.

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  16. Akhila Post author

    Thanks andy. I agree with you. I too dont want to be loved out of responsibility…

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      1. Confused Thoughts

        Lack of experience I would like to say I don’t know but if we think about parent or siblings then it shows their unconditional love so I can say yes I would like to prefer unconditional !

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    1. Akhila Post author

      Say, there shouldn’t be any conditions like he or she should love me only..in this way..?

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  20. Shweta Suresh

    Very deep thought indeed. Everyone wants unconditional love but I think sometimes people settle for far less because of the illusion of true, unconditional love.

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  21. Varsh

    Both have their own charm. Wouldn’t we want to be loved unconditionally by someone and because we are related to our parents and siblings?

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  22. prashantt

    Ahaaa….my kind of question first time on your board haha..lol!
    To be very honest where there is a true love there comes a responsibilty and yes true love is unconditional but when it comes your way you enjoys the responsibilities attached to it too.

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    1. Akhila Post author

      Love varies from people to people.. it’s okay when responsibilities are attached to that, or rather responsibility comes in naturally.. But i don’t think the vice versa would be true..

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      1. prashantt

        You might be right as i haven’t came across to the responsibilities yet so morever my opinion is based on observations only.

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  25. Akhila Post author

    Agree with you priya.. Once we realize it’s love, everything happens automatically

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    1. Akhila Post author

      Thanks meena.. As you said responsibilities or whatever may join love gradually on a long run.. But it will happen automatically..isnt it

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  28. Meenakshi Sethi

    Responsibilities don’t even feel like burden in unconditional love since that love has no conditions, it is free and selfless. For me only unconditional love is love all other is just business!

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  29. Shiva Malekopmath

    True Love or Responsible Love, that’s a very interesting question.
    I feel Love grows and matures as time passes by, the give and take, the understanding for each other, the concern for one another, so on and so forth that you can say is true Love which is also responsible.
    Conditions are Unconditional when it comes to Love.
    Good One,
    Regards,
    Shiva

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    1. Akhila Post author

      Thanks shiva sir.. I agree with you on the growing love.. Yes it grows and matures. Nothing can beat true love..It’s always unconditional

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      1. Shiva Malekopmath

        Akhila I was just thinking about your post only.
        Is there anything called as Responsible Love, I think it shall not be. It is more of a duty bound but not Love at all. I hope you understand.

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        1. Akhila Post author

          Duty bound love is there..it’s happening all around.. Maybe you know it better than me..as you said, it cannot be called as love, that i agree

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  36. thewritewomanblog

    I have a friend who came to the UAE on a job, her neighbor’s son (who was already in the UAE) was given the ‘responsibility’ to take care of her until she settled down. This responsibility turned into love and now he and she are ‘responsible’ for one another as they are very much man and wife and very much in love too. 😉

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