I don’t find true love or romance in you guy’s relationship.
Oops… How dare I to say that. Who am I to judge someone else relationship. After all who am I to define love?
What is love.. love is just love.. nothing more to say.. It’s good enough as it’s not an abstract thing to be defined.
Your version of love may not be as that of my version. It doesn’t imply that you are only right or I am. People may be expressive or non-expressive. Let them be as they are.
If there is love, the bond will be multidimensional comprising all the emotions under a single umbrella. It will have care, trust, lust, passion, longing, addiction, possessiveness, compassion, attraction, attachment, affection and comfort (and many more). There is always enough space for you to release your temper, grief, and any pain.
And yeah, hormones such as oxytocin also have a main role to play in love. Maybe that’s why you cannot force some to love you or prevent someone from loving you.
And above all to the superficial feelings, there develops a quite natural bond as you go on. And that natural addiction will be evidenced in your actions.
You can buy an orgasm, but never love. No love for sale is so far available in the markets.
Well, this is how I outline love up to certain extent, and yes I don’t believe in first sight love.
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85 thoughts on “You can buy an orgasm, but never love.”
I don’t believe in love at first sight even though people hav told me that its like u felk for a person instantly just like u know her from a long time,but it later end up to be lust or infactuation and the intensity of love is different fr different people,some say love just for like and for some others love is like forever feeling and yes for sex u can choose anyone but love is not easy to find.nice one!
hey crys.. wer ru lost these days
Ha ha im not lost,I am here itself sup:)
Thanks crys.. Love could be varying wrt people….i can never have a second thought or second chance in my love life..but there are many who are ready for that, even accepting many lovers at a time..
Yup even I beieve In being loyal to that one person.but the perception of love is different fr them so according to them its ok but we don’t find any depth of value in that.
Exactly.. good to know your thoughts in the same lines
Yeah..let them be in their own ways..
Yup its thr life,let them do whatever,we r no-one to judge and we will live according to our morals:)
That’s it crys.. Why should we worry upon them, thinking unnecessarily..
I like all ur article,its nice and different,always I come up with something new and interesting.keep it up.
Thanks a lot for your kind words..have a wonderful day
My pleasure dear.
“The orgasm has replaced the Cross as the focus of longing and the image of fulfillment.”
When the focus is shifted from love, the life just become mechanical
wow never expected such bold notion from you…read this wrote on the same line as your notion…
Thanks sangabad..will read your post
unity of souls is more important before bodies unite.. thats what i feel . good one akhila.. somehow these days you are making me agree on your points .. haha:)
Even I don’t believe in love at first sight it has to come naturally and very nicely u have written Akhila. Love has to happen it is not a game
True..it’s not a game ..it’s all about two loving souls.. And it’s life long without any second chance…
Yes absolutely true and can’t play with someone feelings too
Yes..just respect their feeling and give them enough space
Wow! This was good!
You’re humble ..:)
That’s bold,but true.love is like a natural calamity.we can’t make it happen forcefully,but when it comes we can’t even stop that.That sweet damage when we hit by that is eternal in soul.
So true !
now days people finds orgasm in the cover of true love
Hmmm… fake illusions
Thanks my dear..
Beautiful. I love this.
First sight love is a big puzzle for me.Before 16 years I got arranged marriage with an unknown fellow.I trust my parents choice so I was sure everything will be fine.Today we love each other most.Acceptance is the most important thing in love.orgasm is physical diet but love is soulful diet.In my opinion true orgasm cant be purchased It happens only when someone’s love and dedication relate it.isnt it?
Both are interconnected in a committed relationship..
People buy Orgasm but cant true love.
There is nothing to believe in First sight love.
Very Well written.
Thanks neel.. good to know that you too don’t believe in love at first sight
Mee too. Found Somenone similar catching the soul like u.
Love Now A Days is just like this : http://wp.me/p8gd2K-6W
Very truely written!!!
You are always welcome!!!
Any natural calamity,you can name it anything
I don’t know about love at first sigh, I don’t now about love at all, all I can say say is it has to be true and pure.
I don’t want you to call me day and night, it cannot be all happy all the time,
All I expect from this ‘Love’ is togetherness. Fight with me, love me, hate me, scold me if I am wrong, but it has to be with me, Love is about togetherness for me.
And yes, it can never be bought, markets can sell anything brought from anywhere but now this dear scarce love!
Love your views on love.. wish you to have a chance soon
Thank you so much dear 🙂
It’s all about love..only love
Will check it soon
I am still nowhere close to figuring the fine lines between relationships – this rings a bell here and there 🙂
Ha ha.. listen to that bell.. you will have some answer
Yeah..Google told me
but love at first site do exist my dear!!!!
love at first sight.. cupid strikes etc are just illusions.. love is eternal
For real, yes!!!
Yup…there you are….so when did those hormones tell you that it’s him, your ❤️…
You are right, Akhila. It’s very difficult to find such love where everything in rhythm and where the lovers find space within themselves. I think people are more looking for lust than love. Hence the true love is often missing in most of relationships.
Thanks sayanti. Many a times lust is recognized as true love. And at a later point of time when people realize it, the egoistical notion comes into picture spoiling the relationship
Interesting title. Yiu certainly could have done better justice to the post.
Either way, it was short and sweet
Thanks.. I liked your nice critic view…yeah..it was short ..maybe the lazy me didn’t explore further
Lemme see if I can explore more…pretty interesting topic to write about on
Oh.. sure…give a try.. I am awaiting to read that…
The image of the animated couple, the video is way too beautiful.
Your perception is crystal clear as always. Hope you’re doing good. 🙂
Hey harsh.. Thanks a lot…How are you my little friend.. Which course now?..
I am very good, Di. Thank you so much. 🙂 I never knew it would be so tough to choose courses now, I hate not to be focused, but that’s what I am right now. *nervous smile* haha
Sometimes its like that.. Let the fruit at the top lessen your nervousness
True! These days anything can be sold in markets except love! I still find it hard to believe someone falling in love with someone strange in first or multiple sights even! It may be just chemicals playing games…Never happened with me atleast… true love is what we get from parents…that’s what all i know and experienced!
Yup..there are chemicals playing, like the so called love hormoneX
Yup, there are chemicals playing , the so called “love hormones” – oxytocin as per science.. still sometimes my intuition distracts me from science as I am experiencing some other form of love, maybe the unconditional love..something which we talked in some other comments…
Well, I bless you to fell in love with your soulmate soon ( thinking loud, fell in love- is that phrase actually correct? Love should be something to raise you up)
Yes I remember…the unconditional love which doenst have expectations which are part of human nature…! This also would be governed by some chemicals i suppose….how has your experience been with it so far?
Thanks for your blessings! I hope too!
Fell in love – yes it should be to rise ! There have been numerous thoughts and debate behind this in the past…some say it is ‘fell/fall’ because a person in love becomes incapable of many things, his behaviour is controlled by love (and the chemicals) and he is like a slave to it…counter-argument would be it makes one appreciate so many subtle things in life, opens your mind to the subconscious, makes you happy, feeling of bliss, gives you courage to do things which otherwise you would never have had and you turn into a better person!! I go with the counter argument!!
Ah.. I am exploring his unconditional love.. there is a Malayalam movie dialogue which comes to my mind now “ I maybe traveling though places where no one had explored so far, like a crazy fellow”
So you are still in your journey to explore more!! that movie dialogue is apt for you then!! Good luck in the exploration!!
I am exploring the art “let go of attachment, flow with love”
Learning to let go definitely helps in making us stronger!
But wont love again become reason for attachment?
well, May I recommend you to take this course on Udemy (self marketing of course). But it has the explanation to your question “wont love again become reason for attachment?”
I am really looking for you reading and reviewing it.
Ok will check it out
Thanks my friend… you are free to enroll..it’s a 35 mints course, you just need to register for the course…I’m a awaiting your critic feedback on the same..
Sure will be enrolling and going over it this weekend! Looks promising to me!! Thanks for sharing!