If they don’t need you, don’t stay anymore. You can’t force a connection. If it flows naturally, it will be felt mutually. Effort must be put in both ways to blossom the relationship. One sided sacrifice for long can only ruin your peace.
Don’t make it grey. Either in or out, that’s it. Halfways in relationships can only stress you especially if you treated them as a priority while you were just an option for them.
Distance yourself from them for whom you are not a necessity, no matter how much they mean to you. If they don’t need you, they won’t care. Then, atleast then, realize where you stand and don’t stay anymore or don’t beg them to stay with you.
Don’t let them take you granted forever. You don’t need to be guilt ridden either for not being good to them now as before.
You are dutiful to your heart, listen whatever bleeds from there. There is no point in arguing with them or making them understand you. Better leave and make your own world.
Staying stuck somewhere you don’t belong is equivalent to sacrificing your own peace
Neither wait for some other with pearly eyes to heal your burnt soul and to carry your emotional luggage. Find your own peace and fix yourself.
Such a nice advice.
Thanks indira..glad that you felt it so
move on
out and over
to clover
yep
Well said. Self respect is more important than anything. If someone doesn’t value you, you must distance yourself from them.
Exactly..believe strong as your title says
It is like sacrificing yourself that too in vain !!!
Yes Utkarsh.. such sacrifices aren’t “cool” anymore
By the way, Happy to see you after a while
Thank you…
Oh dear this is so true…i agree
Thanks, glad to see you here
Great post akhila.Hey How are you?
That’s so true you must choose yourself in this kind of situation.
100 % true!!
Thank you shre