Category Archives: Self Help

Promise yourself never to say “I’m bored”

By | June 6, 2021

I maybe boring you, but entertaining myself was never a problem for me. Yes, I do exist and don’t get easily bored. I have promised myself never to say “I’m bored”. As long as the mind is busy with constant explorations and weirdness, how can I be bored! Maybe it’s the multiple interests and passions… Read More »

Wear your soul – Stop being attention seeking

By | January 17, 2021

Attention Seeking It’s quite a human nature to seek for attention and care. But when you play the worst drama for catching the excessive amount of attention, you fall into that category of irksome attention seeking type.   When the drama is evident, my don’t care attitude towards the dramatists would become quickly prominent and… Read More »

You can only make you complete, but it’s you to define what’s complete

By | December 12, 2020

Dear friend, You are always my friend, and I love you a bit more everyday. But I can not make you complete. No one else can. You think there is some half to come out from the mysteries of universe to make you a whole. But trust me no such halves exist as there is… Read More »

How to unlearn the Learned helplessness ?

By | November 7, 2020

Did this thought “I have tried everything, still it’s is going beyond my controls, feeling helpless, so let it be somehow now” ever crossed your mind? Not your blame, but self-taught You are stressed and exhausted. But you haven’t’ tried everything. Instead unconsciously got tuned to the helplessness. This happens with all of us at… Read More »

Be a soft dew on dry hearts

By | September 5, 2020

You maybe with ’em when they’re laughing with you or when you’re enjoying with ’em. But it’s not just during these up moments or passionate moments they’re in need of you. They need you the most when they are a little lost actually, when they’re down mentally or physically. Be a soft dew on their… Read More »

Thinking how you became a victim of circumstances?

By | August 8, 2020

Did you get affected by something around which you may have no control at all? Thinking how you became a victim of circumstances?You did nothing to cause that loss, still you became the victim of actions or inactions of others.  Yes, for some reasons, maybe sometimes without even a reason we all become victims of circumstances.… Read More »

Why you should not forget the relationship with yourself ?

By | July 11, 2020

Don’t sacrifice too much, no one cares You are a good person. A good husband/wife, sister/brother, daughter/son and what not. All are highly important relations. But did you miss something..? A supreme one..? The relationship with yourself!! This supreme one is easily ignored or forgotten while being tangled to your duties and responsibilities. You won’t… Read More »

Comfort matters, not just yours but theirs too

By | June 7, 2020

Comfort matters “Oh! No, please be outside of your comfort zone, everything you ever wanted is outside your comfort box” Is this what you wanna tell me right away on hearing this “Comfort matters” Well, no offense, but here the context is “about maintaining comfortable social interactions” So this is about “comfort of not just… Read More »